The reverse … October 2, 2009

Someone once told me that good thoughts chase away the bad feelings…let’s see

Do your lips up sticky, sparkly & sweet. Then blow kisses. Say thank you. Allow other people to inspire you. Share your bliss. Smile — even if you’re shy, even if you have bad teeth, even if it scares you. Hold someone’s hand. Be honest. Volunteer your time. Love yourself. Do your best. Learn how to balance having respect for other people’s decisions & being true to yourself. Tell people how much you like them. Send unexpected gifts. Talk to strangers. Do favours. Let go. Be generous. Eat whatever you want without guilt. Don’t think about other people’s definitions of success, beauty or happiness. Make your own rules. Write your own guidebook. Count your blessings. Never stop trying to improve. Be your own superhero. Aim higher. Contribute. Create spaces for other people to enjoy. Sleep in. Let other people sleep in, too. Be compassionate. Listen. Give yourself time off. Be enthusiastic. Choose happiness. Create. Follow your passion. Connect. Compliment people. Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself. Surprise yourself. Appreciate the people who support you. Take photos; document everything. Have a plan. Know your patterns. Be in the present. Laugh. Get close. Move through your fear. Challenge yourself. Keep it simple. Turn up the music. Realise your own freedom. Relax. Flirt. Dress up in some small way every day. Even if it’s just a good pair of knickers or a coat of death-defying mascara. Be different. Be genuine. Allow yourself to change & evolve. Dream big. Believe that you can manifest anything. Take responsibility. Treat everyone the same way — from your lover to your mother to your postman. Appreciate your past for having made you the person you are. Talk about how you feel. Dance. Sing. Let go of guilt. Treat your lovers with respect. Admit your flaws. …& come up with a plan to remedy them. Surprise people. Set yourself a really huge goal. Then achieve it & set another one. Kiss. A lot. Remember that trouble doesn’t last. Be still. Look at the stars. Be as ridiculous as you like. Trust that you are loved. Stay curious. Charm people. Give real hugs. Bat your eyelashes. Forget yourself. Reach out. Flatter people. Get drunk on life. Release your expectations of other people. Allow them to be who they are, & appreciate them regardless. Stretch. Listen to your instincts. Make eye contact. Keep your word. Talk about real things. Discover yourself. Speak up. Let life excite you & lead you astray. Delight in every day. Don’t be afraid. Just love.

via. http://galadarling.com/article/100-ways-to-be-a-love-letter-to-the-universe

Despre a-ti pune gandurile pe hartie… August 13, 2009

……sau Jurnalul Oanei Pellea……mi-a placut foarte tare.  O insiruire de cuvinte pline de sens, sincere si simple, si in acelasi timp venind de la o persoana pe care as dori-o multiplicata cu 10000 cel putin….pentru societatea noastra.

Mi-a placut ca nu e un jurnal intim, dar e suficient de intens in sentimente astfel incat sa intelegi ce simte un creator de valoare ca si Oana Pellea. Mi-a placut ca nu exista barfa, nu exista povesti despre nimeni din bransa ei….mi-am permis sa imi insusesc atitudinea vis-a-vis de “caloriferul vorbitor” – aviz celor care au citit -  . Mi-a placut ca vorbeste despre dragostea pentru mama ei si despre Dumnezeu, mi-a placut cum se refera la cei din viata ei ca fiind ‘ai mei din cer”. Mi-a placut ca s-a plimbat peste tot prin lume,dar nu asta conteaza -  nu e nici pe departe un jurnal de calatorie – mi-a placut cum a povestit intamplarile care au marcat-o si i-au dat incredere in ceea ce face. In faptul ca face un bine celor din jur prin teatru, prin meseria ei. 

Mai degraba ai impresia ca stai cu un prieten la un ceai – decat ca citesti o carte. Asta e senzatia dupa ce citesti Oana Pellea. Sper sa mai scrie…..o recomand cu drag. Mie mi-a facut mult bine sa citesc cartea.

trop naive May 21, 2009

jetter tout par les fenetres….

Diesmal nicht! April 13, 2009

Die Vision entstand in August 2008 in Stockholm. Und seit dem hat es sich langsam aber sicher konretisiert. Auf Wolke neun war ich ein Paar Tage lang als ich das Ticket gekauft habe. Und diesmal hat’s aber nicht geklappt. Es ist eine Entscheidung zu treffen, ich hab sie getroffen. Niemandem zugehort sondern genau gemacht was ich gefuhlt habe. Eigentlich was ich starker gefulhlt habe, undzwar nicht zu gehen.

Aber ich bin traurig. Ich habe mir diese Reise seit ein Paar Monate gewunscht. Hab mir vorgenommen meinen Freunden nicht mehr unber Paris zu erzahlen, da sie mich satt haben. Und dann kam dieser Plan….eine Woche dort. Aber jetzt wird die Woche dort eine Woche hier sein. Na ja.

Prioritaten zu setzen sucks. Big time.

Inzwischen wurde ein Tag hier auch nicht viel verlangt sein,oder?- siehe Photo

If Then Else… January 19, 2009

Mai stii schemele logice de la orele de Info? Ei, am gasit una adaptata zilelor mele )))

Mi se pare extrem de nostima, mai ales ca e cat se poate de reala..si cred ca se clarfica foarte tare procesele prin care gandim. Astept compentarii otherwise….enjoy!

Happy New Year 2009! January 2, 2009

Belonging. December 25, 2008

 - to a place where it’s warm, where the house is full with liveley animals – a baby dog and two crazy cats

-to a room where lying on the bed I can watch the stars and see the snow falling on the roof-top window

-to a city that smells like cinnamon and Christmas trees and has a lot of special places and cafes and familiar faces when walking on the streets

-to a Bistro where the hot chocolate, tea and gomboti are like mum’s….and where the music and the lights make me feel like home is the best place on Earth

-to a very close place to home where snow falls on my face, where I feel the inevitable urge to open my mouth and eat snow, to where during the week there’s almost noone skiing, but the people that actually live close to the slope

-to a community that strangly and sureley every year gathers for Christmas Eve and enjoys the Christmas Messe in der Schwarzen Kirche in Kronstadt – organ concert and Stille Nacht being sang only on candle light background. Where almost all faces are familiar, from J Honterus highschool….

-to walking on the streets, meeting people I’ve never talked before but knowing them from highschool, skiing slope, the voleyball team, neighbour schools….from the bus no 1 while going and coming back from school every day – and just greeting them with a smile. And receiving a smile back.

-to diving in a chair and re-watching the best movies, having a lot of lights coming from candles, tree decorations and neighbour houses.

-to a circle of people that wherever they might be in the world, they all come back home at this time of year, and it takes around one minute to feel the things that connect you to them again. and start doing the crazy things again. and to the ones that have been constant in my life, ever since we were little kids. and to the very few that have made it into this circle in the past years

-to myself, and redescovering that all over again….

Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year, wherever you are in the world!

old…as i’ve understood. new for me, though…:) December 19, 2008

Festivalul Filmului Francez 2008 December 4, 2008

Intre 5 si 11 decembrie va avea loc Festivalul Filmului Francez 2008 la Bucuresti, si sunt tare bucuroasa sa aud asta. Anul acesta vor fi peste 40 de filme, in cateva cinematografe din Bucuresti, la Studio, La Patria, Elvira Popescu, CinemaPro….si deja mi-am facut programul.

Vor fi cateva zile pline de nostalgie de Paris, de Franta, de abia astept! Va invit sa va alegeti filmele pe care vreti sa le vedeti de aici :

http://www.cinefan.ro/stiri.php?stire_id=1429&nume=Festivalul_Filmului_Francez_2008___CineGhid_Complet

Ne vedem pe acolo!….pe undeva

sentimente si intrebari December 2, 2008

Ieri a fost 1 Decembrie, Ziua Nationala a Romaniei…S-au implinit 90 de ani de la Marea Unire…. si dintr-un access de confort, am stat acasa, cu ai mei. Am vb istorie, mi-a povestit tata ca pe vremuri istoria Unirii…am mancat de seara cu ei, si ascultam la radio povesti ale oamneilor care fusesera prezenti la Unire, sau ai caror parinti fuesera prezenti la Alba Iulia. Mi-am amintit cum se sarbatoreste 1 Decembrie la Alba, si cat imi placea sa stiu ca langa satul bunicii mele e mare Sarbatoare. Faptul ca totul s-a petrecut la Alba, ma face sa fiu extrem de mandra de faptul ca acolo am crescut, si cand aud cum se vorbeste mi se inmoaie genunchii… Duminica am petrecut-o cu niste prietenii, printre care Vlad din Alba si Andrei din Sighisoara, si am vorbit cat am putut de putin, imi era mai mare dragul sa ii aud pe ei vorbind…

 

Dar a trecut repede farmecul zilei, au venit stirile pe TOATE canalele noastre, stiri cum ca “le’a dat cu zecimale” la numaratoarea voturilor, cum ca unii’s mai tari decat ceilalti si cum ca Romania tre sa ajunga pe mainile “cui trebuie”…sinistru!!!! Nu si-a mai amintit nimeni de ziua nationala, nu s-a mai dus nici un “oficial” sa depuna coroane la Alba Iulia, pentru ca a trecut ziua alegerilor, si pentru ca noi asa suntem…facem ce facem pt altii, sa ne vada altii, sa ne placa, sa ne aleaga si sa ne spuna ca suntem cei alesi. Nu facem nimic pt noi, pt sufletele noastre, pt ceilalti din jur, daca nu sta cineva sa se uite la noi sa ne laude (asta daca nu ne-am “promovat brandul personal” destul de bine).

 

Mi s-a mai inveselit ziua cand l-am vazut de Dragos Bucurenci la TVR1…a luat cu MaiMultVerde si proiectele lor recunostinta “Romania din Suflete”… http://bucurenci.ro/about-2/

 

Pana una alta, la multi ani cu intarziere, si sper ca macar o urma de Romania are fiecare in suflet…